Thursday, July 29, 2010

Usher VS C. Breezy at Reggae Sumfest...

Dancehall is officially on the map with this one. Both Usher and Chris Brown were present at the 2010 Reggae Sumfest in Montego Bay, Jamaica. I am so proud of my people - when big ticket artists show up at Dancehall venues - I truly start to feel like more of our artists will hit the mainstream. Y'all saw Mavado playing the bad guy in Drake's "Find Your Love" video. What's next?


Anywhoo - enough gloating - two of R&B's sexiest men doing Dancehall moves to Usher's "Yeah" beat - turned - "riddim," I definitely enjoyed this video. Feast your eyes on this sweaty yumminess. Blank out Elephant Man's umm - brightness. 





Breezy singing "Brown Skin Girl" - I love his patois! Hoping for a video in Jamaica on that one... 


Wednesday, July 28, 2010

Catch the Spirit - Travel for Less...

You ever just want to get up and go somewhere? Anywhere that's not your current environment? 


Well, my family and I get those feelings a lot. Not because of stress in particular - but just the urge to see something different; change your scenery. 


Not everyone has this luxury, and plane fares are skyrocketing during summer season. Fortunately - there's a new way to be a part of the elite and still keep money in your pocket.


Spirit airlines has this awesome deal called the $9 Fare Club. Once you sign up, you'll get alerted via email of special deals for airfare to anywhere that Spirit flies. Sometimes, they have deals for $1.00 each way! 
I can't lie - I have been taking advantage of these deals, and I am loving it so far. Right now, they're running the "Mom and Apple Pie" special - and I'm going to use that to buy tickets to either Nassau, Bahamas or Dominican Republic. I've got to think fast, though - these tickets fly off the site like hotcakes! 










They've always got random deals with crazy names and funny images - but you can only get these deals if you sign up for the Fare Club. It's like $35 a year - but if you travel as much as I do, it's a small price to pay and get such cheap tickets. I've always gotten great customer service from Spirit - and the icing on the cake is, their flights tend to be shorter (and more comfortable) than some of the other airlines! So I really suggest checking this out.






Anyhow - I booked my next flight to NY for next week, and the ticket came out to next to nothing. I can't wait to get back up there! I think everyone deserves the chance to travel, and this is the perfect way to do just that. If you don't have famiyl to stay with in your destination - there are hotel deals that you can bundle with your flight, too - all on the same site. Hit up the webpage for more info. 


Good luck, and don't forget to live life! 



{{Tangent: As I went to post the blog - I got an email for the UFO Sale - where else can I travel to??}}




P.S. - No, I don't get paid for this. I just love this airline... 

Sunday, July 25, 2010

Georgie Porgy - Pudding Pie...

Kiss the girls and make them...


This past week was a whirlwind of emotions for me. I have started to realize that as a Cancer sign, it's supposed to be in my nature to be this way. I used to feel like we behave this way subconsciously, but even in retrospect - I have always been this type of person. Back in the day, I knew nothing about my sign. I always used to hear people talk about Cancers, how they're nurturing and all that, but I wasn't one to pay attention to those kids of things. Nowadays, as an adult, I find these prophecies to be true - and I really don't think I can fight them. 


I spent half of this week battling the decision to give up on this romantic hurricane that I'm in the middle of. Part of me felt like there were too many risks associated with the relationship. I let people get into my head, jaded individuals with their self-spurned motives. The paranoia set in after the negative feedback drilled it an entryway. I facilitated this monster for too long; it grew into a beast that was slowly making way to my heart. Should I have continued to let it take over? 


What would make me any different than the rest of the scorned women on this earth? Most of them have never even been hurt. They just run on the fumes of others, those who have been wounded in the war of love, and pass their purple heart around to civilians. Just because you've touched a medal - doesn't mean you were in the battle.  What makes bitter men and women? Perpetuation of stereotype beliefs: "all b*tches are hoes," "n*ggas ain't sh*t," "all men cheat," etcetera. I refuse to continue that. What happened in my previous relationship foreshadows NOTHING that will and can happen in my future or current relationship. Why should I slam the baggage from the last flight onto the next plane - and pay the overweight? I think not. I'm flying with carry-ons on this trip; all I'm packing is love, understanding, and the desire for happiness. If I get hurt along the way, there's plenty of opportunities to leave. Those emergency exits aren't just there for show. 


From here on out, I take the wheel to this love thing. You drive, I steer. If the gas runs out, we can either push it to our destination, or leave it on the side of the road. But I'm leaving that to fate - not the backseat drivers who swear they know how to give directions. Is that wrong? Or are those the ways of a good driver? Let's find out. 


All aboard!


Wait - this is a two-seater. Sorry... 



Friday, July 23, 2010

Wildwood's On Its Own




So, my little fledgling story's got its own page! I'd love if you guys would show it support and follow it as well. I know there's plenty of people without Blogger accounts who follow the story - so all the love is much appreciated. 


http://wildwooddrama.blogspot.com


I've been working on stories all vacation, so new ones will be added weekly. Hope you like it! 

Thursday, July 22, 2010

{{Nail Star Lifestyle}} Vol. 2

Here's my second installment of Nail Star Lifestyle - I've got three of my latest designs to share with you guys.


Roynika has taken care of me these last three times - I honestly don't know how she comes up with all the designs she does. This girl is genius. I'm dying for her to open up her new shop so I can stalk her some more... 


Anywhoo.

















Something about the polka dots made me fall in love, lol - and the color combination added the girly flair to it. I might want to do this one again one of these days... 


She's so freakin neat!! If you weren't married, Ro. I'd so propose to you. 




Enjoy! I'm working on a new nail project that I know she's gonna LOVE! 

Wednesday, July 21, 2010

||Natural Product Review:|| - Ebene Products

I'm going to try my shot at product reviews. I love food, and I love trying new things - especially because in my line of work right now, I'm constantly receiving samples of new up and coming lines. Going natural has prompted me to also change the products I use, and I've been doing my best to steer towards the less artificial stuff. 


I have been using the natural hair care line known as Kinky Curly for about a year now, and I've put a lot of people on to it. The pitfall of the products, though - is the steep price! So now, I'm on a constant search for the less expensive alternatives. I was introduced to the owner of Ebene at work - and she is gorgeous! 





Her name is Fayola Nicaisse-Hehtorn, and I fell in love with her as soon as we exchanged handshakes. Her journey began while looking for natural products for textured hair. The story is that she asked the salesman for a product geared towards her - and he came back with a shampoo for dark hair. That comical event propelled her to start her own line, which has been climbing successfully up the business ladder for the past few years. This beauty was born in Port Au Prince, Haiti - and donates to charities that support her country in its time of need. Please check her out here.








I was blessed to receive a gift basket of items from the line - and I've been testing them out over the course of these past few weeks. There's a few items not noted in the picture as well, including the coconut milk moisturizer and a great smelling scalp conditioner. The Natural Styling Balm and Shea Butter Curl Defining Creme fit perfectly in my travel bag - so I've been able to put them to the test while I've been on vacation. I must say - they've been doing really well. 


We've been going to the beach a lot - and the salt water does a number to my hair, especially because it's dyed. After I shampoo and condition, I rub in the leave-in conditioner, followed by the curl-defining creme. While damp, I rub the styling balm on my edges/temple, and brush my hair down. 


My hair's pretty unruly and resistant,and it sucks up moisture like you wouldn't believe. The conditioner and curl defining creme work like a dream, but the styling balm isn't quite strong enough for me. Needless to say, I'm giving my hair a few weeks to grow accustomed to the products, so let's see what happens as the days progress. 






I love it so far, and the styling balm smells incredible! 
As most natural styling products go, the price is a little more than 
conventional products - but that's to accommodate the high quality ingredients.
I think if more people supported these brands, the price points would lower substantially. 

Hope you guys enjoyed my first review, I know there's a lot of natural and curly girls out there suffering the same problems I am - glad I could share!


My Favorite Things...

CousinJin has featured her summer wish list on her page, and I've got my staple items that I love, as well. Mine's not as glamorous, though - but here goes!!


Dr. Bronner's Peppermint Castile Soap is a must have in my house. 
Multi purpose and smells great. Even use it for the puppies! 

Alba's always in my "makeup" purse - it's shiny, tasty - and all natural.


 I usually keep it simple, but O.P.I. is my favorite polish brand. 
Hella durable and the widest color selection.
I love being extra with my nails.

Palmer's! Nuff said.

I'm not a makeup girl, but Mom bought me eyeshadow
from Ulta a few years ago - and I've 
fallen in love with NYX. It's cheap, too! 

Tokidoki eyeshadow is my wish item
Costs a little bit more, but it's so worth it! 

As you see, I'm easy to please. We'll talk snacks next time... 

Playground of Love...





My heart is like a ragdoll
Dragging behind you with a stitched on smile.
It bounces back like a playground ball -
Only to be deflated by you.
This heart beats like an 808 -
Pulsating at your touch.
Burn it out with every boom - 
Like the speakers in your car. 


So just break it  little more, baby.
I need the rage to fuel my healing heart.
The time for hurting is now.
Bring on the unhappiness so I can recognize true love.
Give me misery so that joy will taste much sweeter. 
Crush it, baby - like incinerators do.


Cuz one man's discard is another man's diamond. 

"Wildwood" Vol. 5

It's been too long since my last Wildwood post, but I'm back and ready with more. Today, we re-introduce Colleen...






||Colleen:||


The heat is unbearable, so I climb out of my makeshift shelter to get a bit to drink. I freshen up; wiping my face and arms with baby wipes, and applying Vaseline to my lips and hands. As I walk into Wildwood, I can feel the stares from the shoppers. I smile at no one in particular, and hang my purse loosely on my arm as I walk. I belong here just as much as anyone else does. I browse the drink section slowly, searching for the coldest one. A big Arizona will quench my thirst. I collected a few dollars today - why not a sandwich, too? 


The clerk is extra sweet to me today. I pay for my food - apologizing for all the quarters and dimes in her hand. She slides me the receipt, and places an envelope in my hand. "I was told to deliver this to you. Be very careful with it." Confused, I head back to my shelter space to eat my sandwich - I'm starving. I toss the envelope in my bag; it's probably another invitation to a women's shelter. I usually toss them out - my shelter space is just fine, but there may be a food voucher in there. I'll look at it later. For now, this food gets top priority.  




||Customer B - Emeline||




The holistic medicine I've been taking really has improved my mood. For the first time in months, I feel well enough to go outside. I love to enjoy the New York summers; the cool breezes, the tourists. I pull on some clothes, fix my hair, and call my aide, Maria to bring the car from underground parking. Let's go to Wildwood. Today is going to be a beautiful day. 


The cancer has kept me indoors for so long - I forgot how pretty the produce looks on a sunny day. The hues of red, green and yellow make me feel so alive and blessed. I pick up a bunch of kale, and I notice a homeless woman shopping nearby, and a feeling comes over me. I've been wanting to do something drastic for so long - and now I know what it is. I send Maria back home for my safety deposit key. with specific instructions in her hand - my plan was put in place. This feels - exhilarating! 


Doctor Korbin told me my prognosis is two months. The cancer is degenerating my body quickly; he says that soon I will be bedridden. After eighty-eight years on this earth, my children are all married, rich and gone - leaving just Maria and I. She doesn't know it, but fifty percent of my fortune will go to her. Twenty percent will go to my grandchildren, twenty to charity, and five to the community I was born in. Now - what to do with the last five? As I watch this young woman, tattered clothes and all - I want nothing else but to make her life better. She could be out robbing, stealing or prostituting - but she's here. Too much dignity to ask for money, I often watch patrons insisting on buying her food. She deserves this.


As soon as Maria gets back, I bring the envelope to the Customer Service clerk. Five hundred neatly bound one thousand dollar bills, placed in an unmarked envelope. As I slipped the girl a hundred dollars for her troubles, I told her I would appreciate her discretion. Maria and I watched as she handed off the envelope, but to my dismay - she doesn't look inside! She simply puts it in her bag. I fear she may lose it - what should I do now? 

Tuesday, July 20, 2010

Epiphany...





So, Bar's birthday will be over in fifteen minutes, and I must say - he got me through this entire day. I've been walking around with this cloud over my head for the past few weeks. I would explain why - but I just can't put it into words right now. I promised myself I'd be happy for Bar today - I'd brush off whatever issues were bugging me and smile. Everybody in the house keeps asking me what's wrong, because they know this is not my usual self.  


I had too many things on my plate. Too many burdens on my shoulders that were weighing down my spirit. But, I'm on vacation - and I need to let these demons and phantoms go, so that I can enjoy the rest of these days and get back to my regularly scheduled life. And I suddenly got the burst of courage to do that. 


I spoke to Him today about the issues I've been having with our relationship lately. Oddly enough, I got decent feedback. I felt like a piece of the weight was lifted from my chest. I tend to keep my feelings inside until I can't hold them anymore - and then I explode in a rush of emotions. It's not healthy for me, and for some odd reason today I figured that out. I swear Bar was whispering it in my ear the whole time. Oh, the irony! Needless to say - some things are going to change when it comes to him and I, but I think these changes are waaayyy better for my well being. It had to happen. It's always that smack back into reality that puts things into perspective. I've been spending too much time pining over this man. The fantasy feelings have begun to subside - and now I realize that I need to look out for myself. The nurturer in me tends to take over too much sometimes, and I end up neglecting myself. No more. Today was - empowering. 


I feel better now, somewhat. Hopefully when the other problems are solved-  things will be so much better. Only time will tell, though. So, watch the fun. 

Monday, July 19, 2010

Happy Birthday, Bar...

                                             Sunny funeral day.


So today is his birthday. The pain has subsided over the course of two years - but the memories remain. His picture's still on top of my desk; watching over my room like a true guardian. I take it down from time to time, shake my head and say a prayer silently under my breath. I miss him. 


                                       His burial site... 


I miss his laugh, I miss the way his pigeon-toed feet would drag across the ground, slow and paced. I miss our walks to the park, talks about nothing. Basketball days in elementary school - my first boy crush. Who knew we'd become such good friends? Remember Anthony Smith? Lol. Wonder where that fool is now. Looking forward to seeing into him when I came home to visit. There was a point in time when I wasn't even allowed to talk to him. My ex wouldn't allow me to even walk down his block once he found out where he lived. It was a painful feeling, for sure. We'd walk past each other on the Avenue - secretly exchange waves. To miss out on a best friend like that hurts - and I regret allowing it to happen for so long. I could have been there that night when he was attacked. I could have helped him. It shouldn't have been that I was only allowed to see him because he was hurt and near death. It was an unfair situation. So many years wasted. Now I can only talk to him in my thoughts. 


Two years later - and my life has been totally changed. Partially because of losing him, partially because of the turbulent series of events that took place after. Uncle C. committing suicide sealed the deal. My world spiraled out of control from that point on - and I'm paying the consequences to this day. I won't blame him - it's not his fault they attacked him. I blame myself for being unable to cope. All I can do now is celebrate his life. 


Bar - if you're in that computer cafe in the sky reading this - just know that I love you. I love you for your calm demeanor, your ability to make light of any situation. I love you for being my friend through everything, respecting my decisions and understanding my choices. I love you for never forgetting me - even when you moved away and came back. I love you for letting me know that you loved me back - even while hooked up to machinery and iv's. When you squeezed my hand that day - you gave me hope. Hope that life can continue through whatever hard times we may face. I love you for being yourself. 






I will never forget you, my good friend. No one will. How could they? You were the last of a dying breed: loyal, caring and true friends. We need more people like you on this earth. I hope to keep you alive by remaining a good person, maybe rubbing off on someone else and perpetuating your spirit. Muhammad Bylik Etheridge - til we meet again... 






Check out my tribute tattoo here... 

The Hopeless Romantic Diaries





So, my theory of being in love has failed me once more. This time, it takes a bit of my confidence with it. My confidence in the belief that true love will find the individual. I suppose the irony remains. I'm not quite sure what happened over the course of these few weeks - but it seems that He has lost interest. Like the flame is starting to burn out. This couldn't happen at a worse time. Things are taking place that words can't even explain right now, one day when you're older - we'll talk about it. 


I'm always down for reconciliation and giving things another shot, but I'm not sure what I'm reconciling. No arguments, no quarrels, no nothing. Just - fading off into oblivion. I realize that as a Cancer, I can't get much out of him as far as emotions and such - so I extend my hand and heart as far as they can go. That's all I can do. I've gone through so much heartache - it's a surprise to me that I lasted this long with such a positive attitude. I've got so many people giving me feedback, I feel crazy. People telling me to leave him alone, people telling me to continue if it's worth it - people telling me not to trust him. I usually ignore these things, but when my heart's on the line - I don't know what to do. It hurts, that's all I know. 


Secretly I hope things will work themselves out - but I don't know if they will. If he's got things going on in his life and won't let me in, maybe someone else is consoling him. That's the one thing I won't stick around for. 


"Black roses, for this dying love..." 
Quietly praying that this line won't be true. 

Carolina Sunshine...



After my semi-miserable trip to NY, I made it to South Carolina without a hitch. Smoothest flight ever, now I'm here with the fam. Missing a few members, hopefully they'll surprise us and come up. My stomach's being ever so evil to me, but I'm hanging in there. 



I can't lie - this has been the most relaxing part of my summer so far. The breeze, the quiet, being in the company of the ones I love feels good. I think I circled most of my other vacations around others. This time, I can just lay around and do nothing, try my best not to think about what's going on in my life. It feels good to sit around and shoot the breeze, talk about the old days - laugh. Times like this - I really appreciate my family. They don't judge, they just love.




Anyway - I'll be back. We spent most of the day laying around - now it's time to see what kind of trouble we can get into.  See you guys later...

Friday, July 16, 2010

Airport Thuggin' - LGA Style (Part Deux)

I'm sitting here at the gate, waiting to board. Wonder what fun and foolishness NY has in store for me this weekend. Then it's off to South Carolina to spend some much needed time with the family. Another day in the life of a young jetsetter - I guess? Lol - not! 

Wednesday, July 14, 2010

Things I Wanna Say...

But I won't. So - just know it. Lol

Tuesday, July 13, 2010

Marvin Gaye - "Distant Lover"


Laying in my bed - vibing. Just realized this was the sample in one of Kanye's older songs 
("Spaceship"). 


The old soul in me has returned...

Anyway - this is how I feel right now. Unsure of what's going on in my love life - once again.
Still not sure why this has to be so difficult. Nonetheless, the hopeless romantic trudges on. I just don't give up on love that easy. Especially when it's worth it... Tell 'em, Marvin.
((Marvin Gaye enters. Sits on barstool, grabs microphone))
Distant lover, lover (lover, lover, lover)
So many miles away
How long, how i long for you
Every night, every night
And sometimes I yearn
Through the day
Distant lover (lover, lover, lover)
You should think about me
And say a prayer for me
Please, please baby
Think about me sometimes
Think about me here
Here in misery
Oh say it baby
As I reminisce, through our joyful summer together
The promises we made baby
All the daily letters
Then, all of the sudden
Everything seemed to explode
WOW! 
Now I gaze out my window
Sugar, down that lonesome road

Distant lover (lover, lover, lover)
Sugar, how can you treat my heart
So mean and cruel
Didnt you know sugar that every moment
That I spent with you
I treasure it like it was a precious jewel
Please, Lord have mercy
Please, come back, baby
I treasured it baby
And You wanna leave
Oh baby dont go
Please, come back baby
Somethin' I wanna say
When you left
You took all of me with you
Now Lord, Do you wanna hear me scream
Please please oh please baby
Come back and home, girl
Oh baby
Please Darlin
Come back HOME!

Monday, July 12, 2010

|| Wildwood - It's Back! ||





I finally got the chance to write a few episodes of Wildwood, but if you've never peeked at it - you can read the previous ones here:


Chapter One: 
Volume 1
Volume 2
Volume 3
Volume 4


I'll have the next episode up and ready by tonight. I'm excited!! 

Sunday, July 11, 2010

Living In - Fear {{Pt. 2}}

Back to where we left off. Stalker guy. 


I feel like my kindness makes me inviting. People want to talk to me, and I like that. I love interacting with and meeting people. Especially at work - it's one of the few things that make my job enjoyable. Chances are, I've smiled at this man or said hello. Does that warrant him following me? Absolutely not. 


I can't figure out what part of someone's brain would tell them that following someone sounds like a good idea. What part of staring at someone without ceasing would make them think that the person would enjoy that. I'm going to assume he's mentally unstable. 


It just makes me understand why some people aren't so friendly. Probably worried that things like this will happen. Does this mean we should all be paranoid and apprehensive when it comes to socializing with strangers? I've never been afraid of a human being - and I won't start now. If he decides to take things to another level - which he obviously has - I'm ready to do the same. I can't tolerate anyone jeprodizing my well being or safety. I'm not with that. 


I will say this, though - ladies - protect yourselves. Be aware of your surroundings. Don't let someone have more control over your fate than you do. Always watch your back when going places late at night. Never disclose too much information to anyone you've just met. Even telling them where you work might be too much - for reasons like this. Don't live in fear, but live aware. Strange people exist - and they happen to nice girls like us every day. Be warned. 

Living In - Fear?





So - I dunno if I've mentioned my recent "stalker" at work. Probably because he was irrelevant before. Usually, he'd come in and watch me from afar. The worst I've gotten is him standing and watching me eat one day as I sat outside on my break. It was irritating, but I'm not one to be rattled - so I let him rock. Today, though - made me realize that I've been taking the situation way too lightly. 

Tonight - he walked in. Slow, usual pace - weird stroll. Looking oddly around the store - like he was seeking something. He spots me, of course. Walks past me and mumbles something under his breath. I'll assume it was Kreyol. I ignored him like I usually do and went on with trying to close up the store, pulling cashiers - getting rid of customers. Fifteen minutes to close, and he's still in the store. I've never seen him there that late. So, I made a point to tell a co-worker and my boss about him. Just in case he was trying something. 


It was so creepy. Each time I tried to show them who he was - he'd walk away, and they wouldn't get to see him. Before he'd go, though - he would point at me and then walk away. Surreal, I know. Finally, I got Allen to sneak around a corner and peek at him. Got my boss to catch a glimpse as he paid for his stuff somewhere and walked out. I refused to look his way as he left. I won't give his weird ass the pleasure of making eye contact. 


There's something strange about stalkers. It's like, they create a connection with you that doesn't exist. Out of thin air. "Oh, the way she looked at me," or "Our spirits are meant to be together." Something like that - classic stuff they say. I've only had two conversations with this man. One was when he tried to speak Kreyol to me. I told him I didn't and that I wasn't Haitian. He asked if my boyfriend was Haitian - I told him no. He said he felt bad for me. 
{{GTFOH}}
Anyway- the second conversation was when he stood in the shadows and watched me eat. I looked up after ignoring him for five minutes - and asked if he needed something. He said something in Kreyol - and slowly walked off. I guess that counts as a convo. Whatever. 


That being said - store manager watches him leave and tells me what kind of car he drives. Early model Toyota Land Cruiser. I feel better, because she saw him drive off. We finish our closing duties and I get ready to let everyone out the store. Store manager comes back to tell me that she thinks she saw him circling the parking lot. That's when I kicked into defensive mode. Lucky for me, I walked out with Allen and we got to our cars together. Thank God for good people. 


I'll continue this in a bit... 

Saturday, July 10, 2010

The American Dream...





So, last night I had a dream. Yes - I sleep best when I'm stressed. In this dream, I'm pregnant. Shopping for baby clothes, organizing a nursery. Smiling. He comes behind me and rubs my belly. Insert happy stuff. 


I wake up with a tear on my face, and my hand on my stomach. 


WTF. 

Monday, July 5, 2010

The Queen Returns? Lauryn Hill Live Performance...





I miss her so much!! When I saw this video, I had to share it with you guys. She looks good! Kinda looks like she's sober and clean, too. I'm praying that the fact that she did this over "Say Something" means she's staying current and planning to hit us with a sleeper album, mixtape - something! Oh Lauryn, if you're out there  - we need you. Take a note from Empress Badu's book - turn THEM out - don't let them do it to you...

Summer Body 2.0 - "You Are What You Eat"




"Judy got a booty from - heeeere to there..." 

So, my fitness journey continues - and I finally realize what I want from my body. I want to maintain my weight, decrease my waistline - but keep my upper and lower body at its current state. I must say - this is a difficult task. Trainers often don't promote "core" exercise; as they want you to work on every part of the body. Most of them say it doesn't work. I'm finding as I explore all my workout options - that it works for me. 

What plays a major role in how this all turns out -is what I eat. I used to be the girl that would eat anything; if you put it in front of me when I was hungry - it wouldn't stand a chance. Those were in the years when my metabolism was at peak - soccer drained me, I walked everywhere. Nowadays I don't have those luxuries, and it seems my stomach has shrunk. Regardless, I learned about a few foods that help along the way... 

Avocado (AKA Aguacate or "Pear"):

Growing up in the Islands, Avocado was a staple at every dinner. I can't lie, I didn't like them much as a child, but going into high school - I fell in love with them. A little salt, and I eat them alone. My mom loves them smeared on toast. Subway even has a new sandwich featuring the fruit - saw a commercial for it this morning while working out.



Avocado naturally lowers bad cholesterol (LDL), and raises the good cholesterol (HDL). It is also known to promote healthy skin and hair. I have noticed a better sheen to my hair when I eat one a day - but I attribute my skin to my mother, lol. Can't substitute good genes. 

Avocado also has 60 percent more potassium than bananas, and is high in monounsaturated fat, which is known as the "healthy fat" that we need in our eating regimens. They are rich in vitamins B, E and K (hence the benefits to the skin). 



At one point in time, I was eating one a day with a side of meat. They're filling and delicious! 

Grapefruit: 
Another tropic fruit I love. Back in Jamaica, it was the yellow grapefruit - but I absolutely adore the taste of ruby red. It's sweet enough that I can have it alone, or a sprinkle of sugar makes the regular ones just as good. 

They are loaded with Vitamin C - which we all know supports the immune system. Vitamin C helps reduce and eliminate the symptoms of a cold quickly and naturally. 

Grapefruits act as an anti-inflammatory, and also helps prevent free radical damage from toxins in the air. Inflammatory conditions include asthma, osteoarthritis and rheumatoid arthritis. 

The pink color in grapefruit comes from Lycopene, which is known to fight tumors, and also helps reduce the chances of prostate cancer in men.  It is ranked one of the top fruits in antioxidant prodution.

The list goes on with grapefruit's benefits - but my favorite is its metabolism of fat. After any meal - a glass of grapefruit juice helps to remove fat from your system, helping you burn more during workouts and throughout the day. 

Turkey Meat:

No, it's not just for Thanksgiving. Ground dark turkey meat has been a fixture in my eating habits for the past few months. A bodybuilder/gym owner that is also a customer of mine at work recommended it to me. It has been working wonders since. It's loaded with protein, minimal fat, and also has vitamins as well (Vitamin B3 and B6). B6 helps process carbs, and reduce cardiovascular disease.  

Turkey meat is also high in Selenium, which in the medical world is known to help prevent cancer.  

I often pair an avocado with a turkey burger - then wash it down with a cold glass of grapefruit juice. Once a week - and I'm sure it'll make a change in anyone's weight goals. 

Hope you guys are making progress!